These orders include i Care Orders which means the Parental Responsibility stays with the Local Authority and the child will stay living with Foster Carers who work either for the Local Authority or a private fostering agency, and the child will have a Social Worker, and independent reviews until they leave care at 18; ii Special Guardianship Orders where Parental Responsibility is shared between the Special Guardian s and birth parents where either a birth family member, friend of the family or Foster Carer can apply to have permanent responsibility for the child, thus removing them from the Care system; or iii Adoption Order — where the child is placed with a totally new family of trained adopters and Parental Responsibility is removed from the birth parents and passed to the adopters permanently.
Therefore Foster Carers have responsibility for a child whilst they remain in the legal care of the Local Authority. Anyone over the age of 21 can be considered as an adopter, regardless of marital status, disability, gender, religion, sexual orientation, income or whether you have parenting experience or not.
We are looking for families from a wide variety of ethnic and cultural backgrounds who can offer a permanent loving home and a secure environment to a child. No you cannot apply unless you or your partner are a UK resident. Your permanent home must be in the UK at the time of assessment.
We normally recommend that there is at least a two year gap between the age of your youngest child and the child you adopt. The adopted child needs to be the youngest in the family — within a family dynamic it does not work for all concerned to try and place a child as the oldest, or in between existing siblings.
There is no upper age limit when determining who can adopt. In turn this may have a bearing on the age of the child you will have to consider. Yes you do not have to be in a relationship to apply to adopt. Families for Children has a good network of single adopters both women and men.
There can be any number of reasons that an adoption agency will not accept a Registration of Interest, or that during Stage 1 they decide not to move you onto Stage 2. For this reason we would need to discuss with you the particular circumstances in your case. However, we are independent of the Local Authorities and Regional Adoption Agencies, and make our decisions based on our own criteria and assessment.
It is entirely down to you! There will be a monthly newsletter advising of all activities and events and news from FFC plus of course our website holds all the new information as it comes in.
So keeping in touch can be as simple as receiving our regular newsletter. We believe that adoptive families function best when they are part of a wide network of support — it helps to have people around you who understand your experiences. Adopted children who may struggle at points with their personal identify benefit from knowing that they are not the only children in the world who are adopted, and for this reason we try to arrange regular support groups and activities with other adoptive families for you to link into if you wish.
Some children will have been more effected by their early traumatic experiences and need a higher level of therapeutic parenting or input over the years, and FFC through its ATRIUM service is able to offer a wide range of interventions which we can help you access as and when you need them.
In days gone past, there was a social stigma around children being born to unmarried mothers and so many children were relinquished for adoption because of this. These Court Orders are granted following a wide investigation into the care of the child by their family, and work will have been done to identify whether there were any members of the extended family network who might have been able to care for the child appropriately.
Normally the children are removed from these families and placed in foster care whilst the investigation is undertaken and subsequent court hearings are heard. Due to the emotional and sometimes physical trauma these experiences will create, the children needing adoptive families often require additional help and support.
They may have been in an abusive situation, but the loss of the familiar, including birth mother, has a big effect on them emotionally. They will also possibly experience multiple moves to different family members or foster families. Each one of these moves is an additional trauma and loss.
By the time they come to live with their permanent new family, it can be difficult on an emotional level for them to accept that they are now going to belong in one place, believing deep down inside they are likely to move on again. Helping them unpick this emotional turmoil takes time and commitment, and needs adoptive parents to think slightly differently about parenting.
All of this is discussed in much more depth in the adopter preparation training and other workshops. When you have a child placed with you, you will have the chance to obtain funding for a Therapeutic Parenting course too. Interestingly there is also a high number of boys needing adoptive families at any given time. All over the UK Local Authorities are looking for adopters for children needing a permanent new family. The vast majority of these children will be in foster care whilst the search is on.
At Families for Children we are not restricted to looking for children in certain areas and can search broadly UK wide to find the right children for you. Contact plans are put together in the best interest of the child and should reflect their needs in terms of who they would benefit from having contact with and how often.
For the vast majority of children there will only be an annual newsletter exchange between you as parents and the birth family member. You will get support to pull together your newsletter, and also on how to feed back any information to the child from their birth family. For other children they may really need to have direct contact with birth family, this is not often the birth parents themselves, but more likely to be siblings or grandparents.
All of these potential plans will be determined prior to placement so you will know from the outset what the expectation will be, and of course as children grow and change, their contact needs may also change, in either direction, so you as adoptive parents will need to offer a flexible approach over time.
This is an inevitability — and one you must be prepared for from the outset. You will not be able to ignore the fact that your child had a family of origin and nor should you because ultimately it is an important part of their individual history — not a taboo subject.
You as their parent will be the main source of information for them about their birth family, and children should never remember a time when they were told that they were adopted — it should be a natural part of their thinking as they grow up within their new family. You as parents need to comfortable with the narrative that you tell them about their history, and this can feel a bit tricky at best, and overwhelming in some circumstances, depending on what happened within that family.
Some stories are very difficult to tell, and children will need over time to be drip fed the bits of information they can digest depending on their age and developmental understanding. You will be given support on this, and the Local Authority from where the child is being placed should give you a child friendly Life Story Book containing information and photographs of the birth family and foster family explaining to the child how they have come to be part of your family.
This is a book that you will read with them and share information. There should also be a Later Life Letter written by the Social Workers responsible for the decision making about removing and placing the children, which should outline pitched at a mid-teen age the process and thinking in more detail. Your Families for Children Social Worker will chase relevant Local Authority personnel to ensure this information is given to you in a timely fashion, as it is a vital part of your child understanding their identity and background.
Bringing up any child is a rewarding and sometimes challenging experience. This is especially so when bringing up a child not born to you. Your adoption agency will help you prepare with information on the needs of adopted children, talking about adoption and contact with birth families. Agencies also recognise that adoption is for life and provide advice and support as the child grows older.
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Rules on adoption - who can adopt? To adopt you have to be over the age of 21 and happy to make space in your life and home for a child. There is no upper age limit to adoption You can still adopt if you are single You can adopt if you are an unmarried couple - heterosexual, lesbian or gay Having a disability is not a barrier to adoption, provided you can care for the child Whatever ethnic background you are from, you can still adopt You don't have to own your own home - if you have the space and security to care for a child as they grow up you will be considered Being on a low income or benefits should not stop you adopting - you may be eligible for support or benefits You can adopt even if you already have children, and you can adopt more than one child at at time, some children have siblings also waiting to be adopted You need to have been living in the British Isles for at least a year to apply to adopt If you have a criminal record this would be carefully looked into but, apart from some offences against children, won't necessarily rule someone out.
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